Stay Encouraged…

It’s very difficult to look at the bright side of things when everything around you seems to be falling apart. However, although things may not be the way you have desired them to be it is important to stay encouraged, have faith & keep yourself encouraged as things get better. Despite any obstacles or inconveniences you may be facing; keep these affirmations in mind to boost your morale when things get a little tough.

I will not over extend myself.

I will determine what needs my immediate attention & plan accordingly.

I will not take on anyone else’s emergencies as my own.

However, I will be available, as a friend, if I feel I am capable of doing so.

I will feed into myself spiritually when I feel “off” & spend time with myself to process how I am feeling.

I know that whatever I am going through currently is temporary.

I know that people will come through for me when I need them.

I understand that “you are not alone” is not just a statement. Most people will step up in their capacity.

I am loved immensely, even if I may not feel like it.

I will not diminish my accomplishments because things are hard now.

I will not let social media define my success.

I will not let my employer take more from me than I can give.

I will be deliberate with putting time aside for myself.

I will listen to my body when it tells me I need a break.

I will not take life so seriously that I can not take in the moments.

I will cry if I need to but I will laugh in fullness.

My problems are resolved in advance & this time will pass.

People may not know what I am experiencing but they will understand that I need time.

What I have put back into the earth will come back full circle & I am blessed for that.

I am my own superhero & that’s all I need to be.

But just like any superhero, I am entitled to some time to rest.

I am in charge of my emotions.

They are not in charge of me.

Therefore, today, I am choosing…

To be happy…

To be optimistic.

I understand that all things happen as they should.

All things have a divine order.

I will not beat myself up for not keeping up.

I am going in the speed I am supposed to.

Life will turn out to be better than the way I ever imagined.

I will buckle down, have faith & love the journey.

The journey, although not always how I want it to be, is mine.

It is beautiful.

Accept Those Blessing

God has a special way of making it very clear that every one of my experiences serves to be a lesson. As I continue to experience new things as a single woman & adult; I realize that life is a revolving door that keeps me guessing & having to re-adjust. Depending on the kind of student I am, these lesson are either, painful, eye-opening or humbling but a lesson is always learned.

Currently, my experiences have been uncomfortable & humbling but necessary all the same. As someone who’s life purpose is to be a blessing to others; I learned that just as I bless others I MUST be willing to accept when others bless me. I have been doing a lot of self reflection & since I am incapable to do the things I use to do for people; I am realizing that I struggle with accepting the same treatment from other people. Therefore, out of discomfort, I often reject the blessing their affording me. I stubbornly choose to suffer unnecessarily because I struggle with accepting things that people genuinely offer me from the kindness of their hearts.

Now that my situation has changed, I am humbly reminded that what you put out into the world will come back to you. Life is a journey & in that journey I may not always be on top, I may not always be the giver; sometimes I will need to be the receiver. Just as I have poured into others, God will ensure that others will pour into me. When I reject the blessings he’s made a way for I tell God that I’ll find another way aside from the way he has set aside specifically for me. I am working on that. It has been a long journey but I am grateful that I am learning this lesson & that things have been aligned to help me through my difficult times.

I write this memoir to share this message with you. I know many women who struggle accepting from others; unsure of what’s needed in return or out of fear of being disappointed. But today I tell you, YOU are deserving of the assistance you give other people, you are worthy to be blessed & it’s ok to pray for a solution, be provided a solution & accept it when it’s provided. You cannot always do it alone. Take it with gratitude (whatever it may be) & pay it forward when you can. Rejecting a blessing can be the rejection of the very thing that may turn your situation around. Accepting does not change who you are or your ability to deliver on your own; it just allows for someone else to be blessed for blessing you while helping you in the process. A blessing is God’s favor & protection over you & your life.

Accept it.

Life Isn’t A Coincidence…

Life has a way of giving you confirmation for the things you aspire for. However, many of us spend so much time focusing on our routines that we fail to slow down & pay attention to those nuances that serve as confirmation for the things we desire. As I get older, gain experience & begin recognizing the power of manifestation; I am learning that everything comes around full circle— every action has a direct consequence, every desire has the ability to be more & most of us miss opportunities that are right in front of us because we are too busy NOT looking & not maximizing on the opportunities in front of us.

Therefore, today we begin being intentional. We start manifesting with expectation. We begin lacing our expectation with confidence & become readily available to receive. Every action step we take will give us favor. Every word we speak will gain the attention of the person who has influence. Every room we step in will be an opportunity to showcase ourselves & every door we close, readily prepares us for another to open. Today we stop selling ourselves short, stop thinking we aren’t enough & we stop missing out on our dreams while making someone else’s come true.

Nothing we experience, nothing we aspire to be, nothing that suddenly inspires us happens by coincidence. It is in God’s divine timing, his deliberate mission & our ability to identify the things that are for us that will allow us to take heed of our greatest desires. The foundation has been established. It’s on us not to lose on it.