Everything is A Choice

Remember Loves,

This week is yours to do what you want with it.

It is up to you to make active choices to —

Be happy

Be confident

Start fresh

Love without conditions

Start establishing boundaries

Make intentional & deliberate decisions that elevate you & others

Learn something new

Make someone smile

Engage in positive conversations

Tackle unforeseen obstacles

& tap into your tribe, if needed.

(because you shouldn’t go through life alone)

Life is all about choices & often we get so caught up with what is in front of us that we forget that every decision we make, every action we take, is an active choice we choose to make. We have to be willing to accept that although there may be instances where choices are not clear; how we react to any given situation, whether good or bad, is still a choice.

You are too powerful to not recognize that you have the ability to make a choice in everything you do. Just take a moment, sit back, be slower to react & pick the option that bests suit you & what you stand for. Determine if whatever you face (whether good or bad) deserves the energy you want to give it.

Make every choice count.

Mastermind Soirée Discount

Hello Loves!

I have some exciting news on the Virtual Mastermind. The panelist & I really want to make the soirée accessible to anyone who may be interested but may not have the original cost allotted in their budget. As a group we have decided to make it 50% off for a limited time only.

There’s a wealth of knowledge that will be available by women who are just like you. You don’t want to miss it.

Join us for an amazing time to network & invest in your generational wealth.

See you there!

Purchase your Virtual Soirée Mastermind tickets here!

Preserve YOU.

Sometimes we are so busy working hard to make things work for us that we settled for, outgrew or that were never meant for us in the first place. When this happens, we often fail to acknowledge how each experience & interaction makes us feel. But today I tell you, never want it that bad. If it does not feel right with your soul — DO NOT CONTINUE TO PURSUE. Everything that appears promising may be the very thing that disrupts your soul. If it disrupts your soul it doesn’t belong. Recognize disturbing energy by what your body tells you & leave whatever that energy is attached to alone.  Anything that disrupts your peace is not worth the expense. I mean that with anything — work, relationships, friendships — ANYTHING. 

A few years ago I dated a guy that had a dope personality, had a genuine moral compass & was an overall good guy. Despite how promising the time spent appeared; my spirit was extremely unsettled. The anxiety I felt (for no apparent reason) was almost crippling & I could not understand the reason if the picture I was looking at was so pretty. Now hear me when I say, I don’t struggle with insecurities, I take time to myself after every serious relationship & I spend a lot of time pouring into myself; so when I stepped into this I had a clear mind, unburdened emotions & genuine intentions. However, the anxiety that creeped in should’ve been a clear indicator that I was trying to put two pieces of a puzzle together that did not belong. If I would have listened to what my anxiety was telling me, I could’ve eliminated the amount of time it took me to recover from our encounter.

Listen love, your instincts, intuition & emotions are there to protect & add value to your life. If your emotions are out of whack, something has impacted them enough to disrupt your peace. If your body is giving you indicators that make you unsettled, your best bet is to listen to it. If “something just ain’t right”, that something is all the reason you need to evaluate & determine what is robbing you of your peace. There are options in the world babe, never should any option be the reason you lose your peace.

Preserve You.

Nickkie&CO. Virtual Soiree (Mastermind) Reminder!

Hey loves! Happy Sunday!

Just wanted to remind you to get your tickets for the first Nickkie&Co. Soiree. This mastermind will feature 3 women who have taken their financial stability into their own hands. These women have made successful careers with Amazon Ecom, Real Estate, & Business Consulting/Trucking. They have information to share with you that will give you the resources you need to step out too.

Aside from that, every registration automatically enters you in 4 raffles totaling $1000 in free stuff:

Free Amazon Mastermind Class ($500 Total)

Free Business Consultation ($250 Total)

Two Free Nickkie&Co. Memoir & Journal Bundles ($100 Total Each)

If there is an inkling of interest in learning more about starting your own business or getting your feet wet in any of these fields this event is for you! It is a small price to pay to invest into your future. Give it a shot, you will not regret it.

Please register via the link below:

http://nickkieandco.ticketleap.com/nickkieco-virtual-soire-womens-mastermind/

Friendship; God’s Reminders.

Today is a reminder to consistently have people around you that pour into you. Amongst my friends, it has been very evident that the past few months things have been pretty difficult for me. I am blessed that in their own way, they have been there in different capacities; capacities that have exceeded my expectations. Many people tell you they will be there however, I am truly amazed at the capacity people have been. Without a thought, without a question & without missing a beat, they have been there.

As time progresses, I am reminded that meaningful friendships help make life rich. Unfortunately, society has made us think that isolation for the sake of success is normal. Instead of creating sustainable & healthy relationships with the people we love, we have started to put our professions, finances & material desires first. Although those things do matter, the amount of love you receive & the memories you create with the people you love are most important.

Life has a ton of things to remind you that it’s worth living. God put intricate details into everything he has created & in the midst of chaos, if you’re open to it, you will notice things that will make your heart smile. That is how quality friendships are; God’s gentle reminders that it is going to be ok. Regardless of how hard life can be, there are still people here that love you. When you find yourself most ugly, there are people who see your beauty as it is, who love you & are willing to run the obstacle with you.

I pray you have been open enough to receive & recognize these genuine relationships in your life. I pray that you understand that all obstacles weren’t made to be tackled alone & sometimes their willingness to step in takes away the burden of having to do it all alone. I have been immensely blessed because my loved ones made a conscious decision to seek me out when I felt isolation was best. Their interference allowed me to look at the brighter side of things & although things are not perfect now;things feel a little better because I am not alone.

I want that for you. Feeling supported makes a difference in our ability to tackle the things that are stressing us. So if you have a “healthy” someone that wants in when you’re struggling let them in. They see your worth when you can’t & will love on you when you feel unlovable.

It is quite simple, really. Life is too short to go through it alone. So, don’t.

N&Co. First Virtual Soirée – Mastermind Edition

Hello!

Nickkie&Co. is hosting it’s first Women’s Master Mind with 3 phenomenal women entrepreneurs (from all walks of life) that have proven to be successful in their careers. The idea of this mastermind is to show you that you can do it too. You can take total control of your legacy, so get ready to join us. It’s going to be a great time.

Everyone who registers is automatically entered into 4 raffles totaling $1000 in free stuff: free Amazon mastermind course totaling $500, 1 business consultation totaling $250, (2) nickkie&co memoir bundles totaling $100 each.

Purchase your ticket to your soirée today to get in on the conversaron. Zoom details provided post registration. http://nickkieandco.ticketleap.com/nickkieco-virtual-soire-womens-mastermind/



See you soon ❥

Stay Encouraged…

It’s very difficult to look at the bright side of things when everything around you seems to be falling apart. However, although things may not be the way you have desired them to be it is important to stay encouraged, have faith & keep yourself encouraged as things get better. Despite any obstacles or inconveniences you may be facing; keep these affirmations in mind to boost your morale when things get a little tough.

I will not over extend myself.

I will determine what needs my immediate attention & plan accordingly.

I will not take on anyone else’s emergencies as my own.

However, I will be available, as a friend, if I feel I am capable of doing so.

I will feed into myself spiritually when I feel “off” & spend time with myself to process how I am feeling.

I know that whatever I am going through currently is temporary.

I know that people will come through for me when I need them.

I understand that “you are not alone” is not just a statement. Most people will step up in their capacity.

I am loved immensely, even if I may not feel like it.

I will not diminish my accomplishments because things are hard now.

I will not let social media define my success.

I will not let my employer take more from me than I can give.

I will be deliberate with putting time aside for myself.

I will listen to my body when it tells me I need a break.

I will not take life so seriously that I can not take in the moments.

I will cry if I need to but I will laugh in fullness.

My problems are resolved in advance & this time will pass.

People may not know what I am experiencing but they will understand that I need time.

What I have put back into the earth will come back full circle & I am blessed for that.

I am my own superhero & that’s all I need to be.

But just like any superhero, I am entitled to some time to rest.

I am in charge of my emotions.

They are not in charge of me.

Therefore, today, I am choosing…

To be happy…

To be optimistic.

I understand that all things happen as they should.

All things have a divine order.

I will not beat myself up for not keeping up.

I am going in the speed I am supposed to.

Life will turn out to be better than the way I ever imagined.

I will buckle down, have faith & love the journey.

The journey, although not always how I want it to be, is mine.

It is beautiful.

Accept Those Blessing

God has a special way of making it very clear that every one of my experiences serves to be a lesson. As I continue to experience new things as a single woman & adult; I realize that life is a revolving door that keeps me guessing & having to re-adjust. Depending on the kind of student I am, these lesson are either, painful, eye-opening or humbling but a lesson is always learned.

Currently, my experiences have been uncomfortable & humbling but necessary all the same. As someone who’s life purpose is to be a blessing to others; I learned that just as I bless others I MUST be willing to accept when others bless me. I have been doing a lot of self reflection & since I am incapable to do the things I use to do for people; I am realizing that I struggle with accepting the same treatment from other people. Therefore, out of discomfort, I often reject the blessing their affording me. I stubbornly choose to suffer unnecessarily because I struggle with accepting things that people genuinely offer me from the kindness of their hearts.

Now that my situation has changed, I am humbly reminded that what you put out into the world will come back to you. Life is a journey & in that journey I may not always be on top, I may not always be the giver; sometimes I will need to be the receiver. Just as I have poured into others, God will ensure that others will pour into me. When I reject the blessings he’s made a way for I tell God that I’ll find another way aside from the way he has set aside specifically for me. I am working on that. It has been a long journey but I am grateful that I am learning this lesson & that things have been aligned to help me through my difficult times.

I write this memoir to share this message with you. I know many women who struggle accepting from others; unsure of what’s needed in return or out of fear of being disappointed. But today I tell you, YOU are deserving of the assistance you give other people, you are worthy to be blessed & it’s ok to pray for a solution, be provided a solution & accept it when it’s provided. You cannot always do it alone. Take it with gratitude (whatever it may be) & pay it forward when you can. Rejecting a blessing can be the rejection of the very thing that may turn your situation around. Accepting does not change who you are or your ability to deliver on your own; it just allows for someone else to be blessed for blessing you while helping you in the process. A blessing is God’s favor & protection over you & your life.

Accept it.

Life Isn’t A Coincidence…

Life has a way of giving you confirmation for the things you aspire for. However, many of us spend so much time focusing on our routines that we fail to slow down & pay attention to those nuances that serve as confirmation for the things we desire. As I get older, gain experience & begin recognizing the power of manifestation; I am learning that everything comes around full circle— every action has a direct consequence, every desire has the ability to be more & most of us miss opportunities that are right in front of us because we are too busy NOT looking & not maximizing on the opportunities in front of us.

Therefore, today we begin being intentional. We start manifesting with expectation. We begin lacing our expectation with confidence & become readily available to receive. Every action step we take will give us favor. Every word we speak will gain the attention of the person who has influence. Every room we step in will be an opportunity to showcase ourselves & every door we close, readily prepares us for another to open. Today we stop selling ourselves short, stop thinking we aren’t enough & we stop missing out on our dreams while making someone else’s come true.

Nothing we experience, nothing we aspire to be, nothing that suddenly inspires us happens by coincidence. It is in God’s divine timing, his deliberate mission & our ability to identify the things that are for us that will allow us to take heed of our greatest desires. The foundation has been established. It’s on us not to lose on it.

Say It With Me…

I am a connoisseur of positive energy.

radiate a spirit of growth that encourages others.

I am focused & clear minded.

I have the power within me to make things happen for me & those I love.

My dreams & goals obey me.

Every wrong decision is a lesson learned.

My actions set me up for prosperity.

I am growth minded & results driven.

If an opportunity does not sit right with me,

I will use the word “No”.

I will be the best advocate for myself.

However, I will be surrounded by those who will advocate for me, as well.

I love what I do.

If I don’t,

I will pursue something I love to do.

My determination motivates me.

I am resourceful.

I am a vessel of resources & I will maximize them.

I am manifesting a full, abundant life.

I am free from stress & anxiety.

I will master the art of listening to my body & what she is telling me.

I will acknowledge her. I will respect her. I will nurture her.

I will not be crippled by fear.

But I will be motivated by possibility.

Opportunities are endless.

However, any opportunity that isn’t centered in love is not for me.

My life is amazing & it is because I made it that way.

I will enjoy this life.