Sometimes we are so busy working hard to make things work for us that we settled for, outgrew or that were never meant for us in the first place. When this happens, we often fail to acknowledge how each experience & interaction makes us feel. But today I tell you, never want it that bad. If it does not feel right with your soul — DO NOT CONTINUE TO PURSUE. Everything that appears promising may be the very thing that disrupts your soul. If it disrupts your soul it doesn’t belong. Recognize disturbing energy by what your body tells you & leave whatever that energy is attached to alone. Anything that disrupts your peace is not worth the expense. I mean that with anything — work, relationships, friendships — ANYTHING.
A few years ago I dated a guy that had a dope personality, had a genuine moral compass & was an overall good guy. Despite how promising the time spent appeared; my spirit was extremely unsettled. The anxiety I felt (for no apparent reason) was almost crippling & I could not understand the reason if the picture I was looking at was so pretty. Now hear me when I say, I don’t struggle with insecurities, I take time to myself after every serious relationship & I spend a lot of time pouring into myself; so when I stepped into this I had a clear mind, unburdened emotions & genuine intentions. However, the anxiety that creeped in should’ve been a clear indicator that I was trying to put two pieces of a puzzle together that did not belong. If I would have listened to what my anxiety was telling me, I could’ve eliminated the amount of time it took me to recover from our encounter.
Listen love, your instincts, intuition & emotions are there to protect & add value to your life. If your emotions are out of whack, something has impacted them enough to disrupt your peace. If your body is giving you indicators that make you unsettled, your best bet is to listen to it. If “something just ain’t right”, that something is all the reason you need to evaluate & determine what is robbing you of your peace. There are options in the world babe, never should any option be the reason you lose your peace.